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Father-to-be education


Father-to-be education

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The expectant father plays an important role in the fetal education. If the expectant father can participate in the fetal education together with the expectant mother, the promotion effect on the fetus is extraordinary

Emotional fetal education for father-to-be

The expectant father helps the expectant mother to create a warm and harmonious home environment, which is the basis of emotional prenatal education for the baby. In addition to ensuring that the room is clean and warm, color harmony, father-to-be also pay attention to:

• Avoid noise damaging the fetus, and try to keep the wife away from the noisy environment. 

• Prevent pollution in your home and try to avoid decorating your home during pregnancy. 

• If an expectant father smokes, it's best to quit smoking, or at least not in front of the expectant mother.


In addition, in view of the emotional changes of expectant mothers, the expectant father should try to understand and care as much as possible, and timely comfort and enlighten his wife when she has a bad mood. Many mothers-to-be, after pregnancy, have not yet gotten rid of the capricious and permissive girl, often will have anxiety or rejection of the fetus. At this time, the father-to-be should accompany the mother-to-be to watch more books or films that can stimulate the mother's feelings. In the third trimester, the father also has to find ways to help the mother ease her fear of childbirth. It is better for the father-to-be and the mother-to-be to learn and understand the birth process and the possible situation, how to cooperate during childbirth, how to conduct relevant training at home and so on. Finally, fathers-to-be need to share more housework to reduce friction between the couple, you know, carrying a baby can be hard work!


Fetal music for fathers-to-be


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The expectant father can choose the appropriate fetal education music for the expectant mother. Studies have shown that fetuses like to listen to beautiful and soothing music, which contains the sound of periodic waves like the murmur of a river, similar to patterns in the brain known as alfa waves and heartbeat waves, and is easily accepted by fetuses. Try to get your wife to listen to music at a set time, but not for too long. The fetus likes the low, broad voice of the father-to-be very much. The sound waves of the father-to-be, mainly low and middle frequency, are easy to penetrate into the womb, which can help the baby establish a sense of security. Therefore, the father-to-be can sing for the fetus or sing along with his wife. Often listen to the parents' songs, will make the fetus mental health development, conducive to the formation of a good character after birth. It's also a sign of the father-to-be's love for his wife and baby.

Language teaching methods for expectant fathers.

The father-to-be will be able to give the baby a friendly pet name in advance and will be able to call him at any time after he has done so. At the same time, gently touch the fetus with your hand. After birth, fetuses are more likely to respond to the affectionate calls of their parents and develop a close bond with their fathers. In addition, since the fetus likes the low, gentle voice of the expectant father, the expectant father should talk to the fetus more often when he is free, especially when the expectant mother is not well. It is better to touch the tummy of the mother-to-be while chatting, and say hello to the fetus first, then tell the fetus what you see, what you hear and what you live at home every day. When talking to the baby, the father-to-be and the mother-to-be should not be too far apart, but should not cling to the abdomen, which will prevent the father-to-be from conveying his feelings and eyes to the baby through the mother-to-be's vision. Be careful to talk to the fetus in a soft, even tone. Don't make loud noises all at once so as not to startle the fetus.

Antenatal education for father-to-be

For a woman who is prone to emotional instability, a husband who touches her belly often can make her feel better. Since the baby's fetal movement is more frequent every evening, this is the appropriate time for the expectant father to teach the fetus. The mother-to-be lies flat on the bed or leans on the relatively wide chair, the whole body relaxes, then the father-to-be in order from top to bottom, from left to right, gently strokes the wife's abdomen with both hands, each time 5~10 minutes. When the expectant father is stroking his abdomen, it is better to talk to the fetus about it, for better results.

Sports fetal education for expectant fathers

The father-to-be should try his best to arrange time with the mother-to-be every day to do sports, walk, do exercises and so on, so that the mother-to-be can feel more at ease, and when there are special circumstances, he can help in time. Modern scientific research shows that the process of conceiing a new life is not only about the mother-to-be, but also about the father-to-be. In more than two hundred pregnant days, expectant father and expectant mother get along with each other day and night, is her closest lover and comrade. A husband's considerate words and a caring action can soothe the anxious mood of the expectant mother, which is also a kind of benign stimulation for the unborn baby. In Japan, Europe and the United States and other developed countries, young fathers-to-be to join the expectant mother's daily fetal education activities has gradually become a fashion and ethos.